Gora Complex…
Culture, Uncategorized Oct 22, 2020
Life is not bed of roses for girls with lighter tones in middle class families…
I m borned in such a family where ur looks matters the most….
Actually ye apka kasoor nahi k ap kese dikhte hain ye logo ki ankhen huti hain jinko ap apna ainaa bana lete hain…apni pehchan khud pehchanne k bajae jolog ap k bare main kehte hain wohi apka apne bare mao nazarya ban jata hai…
Yehi kuch har dosri larki ki kahani hai …aik tu wese hi confidence ki maar hai aur uper se apko rang k complex maim ap k appne hi gharwale apko dal dete hain ta k jo bcha kucha confidence hu wo bhi sab nikal jayen….
Aur u know what is the ultimate goal of such a nasty mindset ..its just marriage.. jese k kali larkiyu ko dulhe nhi milte….
We girls if middle class are born only to marry …the ultimate life goal…..π€
Jab k hamara deen hamein is trah ki koi bhi taleem nahi deta …lkin aisi baton main deen ko kon pochta hai deen srf us mamle main aata hai jahan ap ka apna mamla hu…right??? πππ
PROPHET MUHAMMAD peace and blessings upon him, did not have any black African wives. His concubines were also not black African women. His wife, SAWDA, peace and blessings upon her, had dark skin, as some Arabs have dark skin, and some have white skin. Racism is not allowed in Islam, and Arabs are not racist….β€οΈ
If you’re looking for an important Muslim African woman to talk about during Black History month, look no further than the Seerah of the Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) , and the woman he described as his “mother after my own mother. She is the rest of my family.”
Barakah or Umm Ayman was the name of the woman whom the noble Prophet esteemed so highly. She was the first person to hold him in her arms when he was born and the only person who knew him from that point until his death. She was one of the few Muslims who the Prophet assured of a place in Paradise.
“Be a mother to him, Barakah. And don’t ever leave him,” Amina instructed her about her son as she lay dying.
Umm Ayman did not fail in her responsibility.
May Allah makes us among those who donot judge girls with their skin tones…we should be judged by our ethics,our manners our morality and our culture….π
I was also a complexed person due to my description given by others but when I look up towards my Allah i found out that I m His most beautiful creation Him describing us Ashraf makhlokat(the best of creation) i m now fully confident about my tone …and i believe to please my Rabb rather pleasing people who will never be pleased….πππ