SABAR is a quranic word which means to have patience ….the root word of word sabar in arabic is saa-baa-raa which arabic lexicographers suggest that means to bind or restrain.💎

In islam we muslims takes sabar as something very difficult because it is something to do when you are in such a difficult phase of ur life when u want to complaint to ur RABB ,but its totally opposite if u know the reward on doing sabar on ur calamities u ll definetely do it…but the reward is for those who do it immediately after having calamity……and i know thats hard !!!😔

I hadn’t knew the concept of sabar until life knocks me down at a very early age…my mum was diagnosed with fatal brain tumor when i was only 4….💔

I was a anxious child yet no one recongnize my worries …..some nights with paternal grand parents and other with maternal grand parents….father remains with my mother at hospital …and i was all alone ..😔..my mind was questioning whats happening ….but i  remain quiet….thats the first time i do sabar without recognizing it….🌷

.as time passes by ….the four critical years of my mum passed but i had lost my mum emotionally i was not attach to her as i haven’t spend my childhood with her…so now the time  came to live with my parents but my wants more sabar from me…so the financial crisis started …nd father had to move to another country …and me mum n lil sister were left alone…..💔

The struggle starts ,my school ,my complexes,, panic attacks , hopelessness,responsibilities……so much to do ….luckily at that i got to know this ….👇 👇👇

Quran says: ALLAH LOVES SABIREEN (3:146)

I thought wow HE loves me….thats great ..i got motivated and started taking responsibilities …i have raised my lil sis myself 🤗my first born is my sistaa…❤️

As growing up,prospering and achieveing in my studies and facing the world like a thug extrovert i forget to mend the broken pieces of my childhood ….at that time i made a big decision .. in a hurry actually at that time..🌹 it was choosing a partner and poured all my worries and anxities at him..👇now,the trial starts…

ALLAH’S  APOSTLE SAWW SAID,”IF ALLAH WANTS TO DO GOOD TO SOMEBODY ,HE AFFLICTS HIM WITH TRIALS”

So the main man of life is there and later he is gonnna be best of my life but at the start of it i had to go through extreme trials …..my whole family was against him…but at that time i got to learn👇👇👇

Quran says…,

FOR EVERY HARDSHIP ,THERE IS A RELIEVE OR EASE..(94:5-6)

I have got my soulmate through so much trials and lots of sabar…when sabar time completes ….the next trails is waiting for me…my mom died,my father got heart attack,and before that i have becum young mom of a disable girl….💔

That says, lots of sabar….🌷🌷🌷

And at her birth i have learnt in detail about sabar and and its rewards and now i have taken trails as a blessings from my Rabb…because with every trial there was ease and i am expecting great reward for this immense sabar from my Rabb on day of judgement ..

.In sha Allah….

Sabar is beautifull to those who trust Allah….and i trust HIM….❤️

Abu Sa’eed Al-Khudri reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said:

وَمَنْ يَتَصَبَّرْ يُصَبِّرْهُ اللَّهُ وَمَا أُعْطِيَ أَحَدٌ عَطَاءً خَيْرًا وَأَوْسَعَ مِنْ الصَّبْرِ

Whoever would be patient, then Allah will make him patient. There is no gift that is better and more comprehensive than patience.

Source: Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 1400, Grade: Sahih

According to Ibn Al-Qayyim in his work ‘Uddat al-Ṣābirīn, patience is divide into three components:

1. Patience in worshiping Allah and adhering to His commands.
2. Patience in avoiding sins and acts of disobedience.
3. Patience with the decree of Allah and calamities

May Allah always counts me in As Sabiroon….🌹ameen